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Seeking domestic violence resources in Melbourne

Lil_b — Tue, 26 Dec 2017 13:16:49 GMT

Hi there,

I am a young female feeling so lost after being on the receiving end of violence from my now ex partner 18 months ago. I have seen a counselor for many months, but wondering if anyone can recommend some sort of support group, or someone I can talk to that's specialized?

I and would love to chat to people who have gone through similar events

thank you

Seeking domestic violence resources in Melbourne

geoff — Tue, 26 Dec 2017 16:53:35 GMT

hello Lil_b, it makes me sad when people have been in an abusive relationship and from what you have said is that your counselling isn't doing what it's intended to do.
You may have done this but google 'list of support groups for abusive relationships' as well as 'list of online support groups for abusive relationships'.
Who you can also contact is Reachout and/or Headspace, plus you could ring the Beyond Blue phone number.
I just want to know if you are safe and not being harassed by your ex, and whether or not you have got all your possessions out of the house/flat.
I hope to hear back from you. Geoff.

Seeking domestic violence resources in Melbourne

GemAndLogan — Mon, 01 Jan 2018 23:53:33 GMT

Hi Lil_b

Although I cant help you with resources in Melbourne as I live in Queensland.

I am 27 and spent 8 years in a very violent relationship and have been out of it a year now, I still suffer from post traumatic nightmares as well as physical issues because of it.

Always here if you need someone to talk to any time

Gem

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Sophie_M — Mon, 01 Jan 2018 23:59:33 GMT

Hi Lil_b, we are unable to recommend specific services here on the forums, but we would suggest you give 1800 RESPECT a call for information on services available near to you.

We hope to hear more from you here on the forums, this is a good place to chat anonymously and safely with others who have had similar experiences.

Seeking domestic violence resources in Melbourne

Lil_b — Thu, 08 Feb 2018 13:28:32 GMT

Hi Geoff,

Apolgies on a very late reply! However thank you for such a helpful and sincere response. I will definitely take your advice on board. So nice to know there are such caring people on this site - I am safe these days as well!

Warmest regards

Seeking domestic violence resources in Melbourne

Lil_b — Thu, 08 Feb 2018 13:30:37 GMT

Hi Gem,

Sorry for such a late response.

I am so sorry you endured that, and would love to talk, it can be a lonely world after relationships like these. Thank you for your kind words,

wish you all the best

Seeking domestic violence resources in Melbourne

geoff — Thu, 08 Feb 2018 16:39:52 GMT

hi LiL_b, thanks for getting back to us and so pleased that you are safe, but please get back to us at any time you need to. Geoff.

Seeking domestic violence resources in Melbourne

GemAndLogan — Thu, 08 Feb 2018 22:44:39 GMT

Hi Lil B

Thanks for the reply : ) I'm glad to hear that you're safe : )

It definitely can be tough even after the relationship is over but things definitely do get better.

Surrounding yourself with supportive people whether it be friends, family, here on BB or a health care professional is definitely the key to moving forward from the trauma of a violent relationship.

Here any time you need : )

Gem