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Lost my job second time unexpected and deceived

Pyrolee — Fri, 15 Aug 2025 23:01:07 GMT

I’ve recently lost my job for the second time during probation period, it was a job I was after and had no issues leading to my dismissal, the boss was friendly at the stage and came off as supportive, I’ve got two kids as well and he’s got two kids as well, seemed like everything was fine and on track

Unexpectedly he gave me the flick final day of my probation and asked to return everything and said it was a business decision. Now I’m unemployed with two loving kids and a wife in distress and feel like giving it all up, I can’t cause my kids need a father but everyday I feel like what’s the point, I’ve been lied to, everything in my life crushed and falling apart, nothings working out for me but it’s like this everyday, waking up and being like I’m in this same pickle everyday, get a job, get lied to, go out have a go, people put you down cause you’re of different ethnicity, it’s all getting too much, what do I do? I feel like I can’t talk and trust people anymore and feel sad and what’s the point, can’t catch a break

Re: Lost my job second time unexpected and deceived

Sophie_M — Tue, 19 Aug 2025 05:44:11 GMT

Hi Pyrolee,

Thank you for your post. We’re so sorry to hear about your recent job loss. It sounds like this came as a real shock, which must only add to how distressing the situation must be feeling right now, especially with a family to care for.

We’re sure we’ll hear from the community soon, but in the meantime, here’s a few things you might like to look at:

If you feel you may have been dismissed unfairly, you can check your eligibility for unfair dismissal here: Fair Work Commission – Unfair dismissal.

Is there anyone that you have to help support you through this? It is a lot to be carrying on your own. If you ever want to talk some more, you are always welcome to reach out to Beyond Blue counsellors a call on 1300 22 4636 or speak to them on webchat here.

Thank you again for posting. We hope that this can be a supportive space for you as you navigate this challenging time. You are not alone, we are here to support you.

Kind regards,
Sophie M