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I Feel Like I'm Being Ignored And Or Rejected On The Forums

Mario_Sonic — Thu, 01 Oct 2026 15:17:09 GMT

Hey again guys. Liam here. So, let's see, what's been going on...well this is something I've wanted to really get off my chest, but...I feel like I'm being ignored and or rejected on the forums. I mean don't get me wrong, you guys have been incredible to me, but I just feel like I can't make a post without it being moved to one where I've literally posted numerous times...I want to talk about all kinds of things, mentally but the ones who run the forums seem to think I'm just talking about the same things over and over which, yes is true, but still...also I know what it is I'm looking for, after a long time of research, I finally found a word for what it is I'm looking for in a girl. I'm looking for a platonic partner. Now for those of you who don't know what a platonic oartner is, well here's the definition. A platonic partner is a person with whom you share a deep, committed life bond that functions like a long-term relationship, but without sexual or romantic involvement. So yeah, THAT'S what I'm looking for. Now the bad news? Well, I am still trying to find that person. My first partner, I broke up with her because she wasn't chatty and was rather quiet, and not to mention that she was so obsessed with me to the point where she wouldn't leave me alone. So I panicked. Then my second one, I didn't really have that much to do with her...she was way too obsessed with her own stuff and she was focusing way too much on herself...and finally my third one, while she is willing to hug me, she never answers my calls or texts...guys...I don't know waht more I can do...can you guys please comfort me right now because I'm crying from this... *Crying* 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

-Liam

Re: I Feel Like I'm Being Ignored And Or Rejected On The Forums

Pete66 — Thu, 01 Oct 2026 23:41:17 GMT

The forum is just made up of people.
I respond to people who are going through a life event that I have been through, and I interact with them to show that they can get through this, there is hope.

Of my own experiences, very few people will have gone through what I have gone through, and it is hard for people to relate

Re: I Feel Like I'm Being Ignored And Or Rejected On The Forums

Mario_Sonic — Fri, 02 Oct 2026 03:07:36 GMT

Thx for at least responding man

Re: I Feel Like I'm Being Ignored And Or Rejected On The Forums

quirkywords — Fri, 02 Oct 2026 09:24:46 GMT

Mario

so sorry you feel rejected. I understand what you are looking for. I had a platonic relationship for a couple of years as I was I needed space. Please keep posting we are listening and you are not alone .

thanks for being honest.

Re: I Feel Like I'm Being Ignored And Or Rejected On The Forums

audiology — Tue, 06 Oct 2026 01:37:40 GMT

Hey dude! Ok so I am just going to be up front here - please don't mistake my bluntness for unkindness or anything like that as I don't harbour any ill will or any negativity towards you in saying this. But you kind of answered your own question - you already aknowledged that yes a lot of the posts you make are incredibly similar, which explains why they tend to get funnelled towards the same location/thread/post. So yeah you already answered your own question pretty much up front in this post.

Also - to simply put it, this isn't a dating site - and you might want to take that into account given that the main reason you appear to be attempting to use the forums for is to locate a platonic partner. The reason a lot of your threads/messages go unanswered is simply that the majority of people that use this site aren't using it to attempt to find the same things you are. Now that isn't meant to put you down or anything like that - but simply a basic fact that you need to take into consideration when wondering why a lot of your posts aren't being interacted with in the way you like - you are simply attempting to use the site for a purpose that the vast majority of others aren't.

Re: I Feel Like I'm Being Ignored And Or Rejected On The Forums

Mario_Sonic — Tue, 06 Oct 2026 05:15:58 GMT

Hey mate. Thanks. It's just so hard when I'm trying my hardest to find a platonic partner and I don't use social media or anything like that.

Re: I Feel Like I'm Being Ignored And Or Rejected On The Forums

MariaStar — Tue, 06 Oct 2026 06:01:23 GMT

Hi Liam, I agree with what others have said. Now, constantly concentrating on what you want, a platonic partner - well you don't always get. I know this from decades of experience. However there is hope.

In my humble opinion, first ask yourself is this what you really want? Why? Etc, and then is it really? Or is it a platonic partner until you become serious? Or is it a friend? Having a deep and meaningful connection is great but it can't exist in a vacuum, people share secrets they don't want to reveal to others, there must be a hope for a future, otherwise it all just ends in tears. As I say this is just my opinion.

Maybe try joining groups where you go to have fun instead. Friendship is important and eventually you might meet your person. There's no rush. In the end we all just want to be loved, but loving others isn't easy.

Please ignore, if this doesn't help.

Good luck. 🙏

Re: I Feel Like I'm Being Ignored And Or Rejected On The Forums

Mario_Sonic — Tue, 06 Oct 2026 10:50:37 GMT

Hey, thank you. I appreciate it. I'm already in two groups, but the two girls that were in one of the groups, have left. And one of them was my ex. @MariaStar

My Trauma Towards Betrayal

Mario_Sonic — Sat, 10 Oct 2026 14:22:55 GMT

Hey guys. Liam here…So if there’s anything I know in my 21 years of being alive, it’s that, it’s human of me to learn from experience, especially when it comes to people betraying me…Well… I have been betrayed by four people, technically five. Anyways so this first one happened when I was in Year 10. So this was all because some boys lit the outside toilets of my high school on fire and my best friend did the right thing in reporting them. The problem occurred when one boy who was friends with the perpetrators, called my best friend a snitch. I then fought this other guy and then he would tell me to kill myself in September 2021. Then the second betrayal, is between me and an SSO who used to work at my high school…this was around the time I lost my dear friend Zelda…she put her arm across my back, asking me if I was okay. I said no and we both left the classroom and the rest is admittedly a blur but I remember saying that I thought of her as a source of comfort. She then refused to work with me and this led to me attempting to fix things by apologising to her on Instagram. But she would report me for apparently stalking her. Then after that, in 2022, another SSO, he believed that I was faking my emotional breakdowns to get out of doing work, AND on top of that, he also told my best friend that I was too stupid to be a teacher and that I looked like I wanted to get shot out of a cannon…then the last one…in 2024…this one deeply pains me…my former soul brother, who was a mate of my dad, he betrayed my trust and chose hard drugs over me…and I feel completely attacked…I’m crying right now guys…can you please comfort me… *Crying*?😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Re: My Trauma Towards Betrayal

Psychdiaries2 — Sun, 11 Oct 2026 09:13:04 GMT

Hey Liam,

I'm sorry to hear about these awful situations of betrayal you have gone through, nobody deserves that. Thanks for opening up to us here. I understand it's hard when someone you love and trust goes behind your back or throws you under the bus. Unfortunately, it happens sometimes. It can definitely leave you feeling sad and attacked because of their actions. I think it's really important to surround yourself with people that you want to be around and who genuinely love and support you. I hope you have those people in your life today, you deserve it. You are welcome to always chat on here and I hope you find comfort in this community today.

Hope you're doing ok,

PsychDiaries

Re: My Trauma Towards Betrayal

Mario_Sonic — Sun, 11 Oct 2026 09:26:18 GMT

Hey, thanks. I'm not, but knowing you guys have my back, helps me. Psychdiaries2

My Fear Of Losing My Family

Mario_Sonic — Tue, 13 Oct 2026 12:06:14 GMT

Hey guys. Liam here. As you guys may know, I’ve been dealing with a fear of losing my family but there’s a little bit more to it…while I am scared of losing my family, the two people that I fear of losing the most is…my Nan and Pop…they mean the world to me…and I often think about what would happen if I were to lose them…well I will say this…the only option I say I would have thoughts on doing but I WOULD NOT actually do it…I would end my life…the reason? Well I feel like I wouldn’t be able to live without them and I wouldn’t be able to stay with the rest of my family because…well my Dad and stepmum have their own problems and my uncle is dealing with his own problems with a girlfriend who always kicks him out on occasion for no reason and I feel like she doesn’t want to look after their kid they have, as all she cares about is her gaming and my aunty and uncle and their kids are going through challenges of their own…my cousin is suffering from his own mental health issues and he has Borderline Personality disorder and I can’t just live without Nan and Pop…I’m crying right now because of this fear…can you guys please comfort me… 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

-Liam