https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/depression/not-getting-better/m-p/581208#M52490 <P>Three years ago my wife said she wanted to leave me, pushed my into an open marriage and cheated on me.&nbsp; At the time I was drinking 20 standard drinks a day.&nbsp; She still refuses to live with me but we get along and see each other. I moved in with my sick dad to care for him and he complains all the time about my cooking (he loves bland food).&nbsp; I guess I feel like I got through the toughest part but now I'm just in a rut and still feeling down. I'm constantly reminded that, even though we're faithful now, my wife has the capacity to have sex with other men and not care how I feel.&nbsp;&nbsp;</P> Tue, 26 Dec 2023 18:52:24 GMT That Other Guy 2023-12-26T18:52:24Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/depression/not-getting-better/m-p/581208#M52490 <P>Three years ago my wife said she wanted to leave me, pushed my into an open marriage and cheated on me.&nbsp; At the time I was drinking 20 standard drinks a day.&nbsp; She still refuses to live with me but we get along and see each other. I moved in with my sick dad to care for him and he complains all the time about my cooking (he loves bland food).&nbsp; I guess I feel like I got through the toughest part but now I'm just in a rut and still feeling down. I'm constantly reminded that, even though we're faithful now, my wife has the capacity to have sex with other men and not care how I feel.&nbsp;&nbsp;</P> Tue, 26 Dec 2023 18:52:24 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/depression/not-getting-better/m-p/581208#M52490 That Other Guy 2023-12-26T18:52:24Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/depression/not-getting-better/m-p/581568#M52538 <P>That other guy</P><P>you have been through a difficult few years.&nbsp;<BR />It seems the boundaries have been decided but you they don’t suit you.&nbsp;<BR />what would you like to happen .</P><P>It is hard when caring for a parent who is critical.&nbsp;<BR />Thanks for the update.&nbsp;</P> Mon, 01 Jan 2024 03:35:49 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/depression/not-getting-better/m-p/581568#M52538 quirkywords 2024-01-01T03:35:49Z