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    <title>topic I'm so unhappy in Depression</title>
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    <description>&lt;P&gt;I don't know where to start. Nothing makes a me happy and nobody seems to care.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;My partner is not understanding what is wrong with me. I guess I can't really pinpoint it either. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I am yearning for something better. Financially we are treading water. I want to move but can't make a decision where. But Im not wanting to do that to my kids. Having to change schools etc.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt; Brother invited all family to go to Bali for his 40th knowing I don't fly so that's crap..partner wouldn't go anyway cos he ia negative towards most of my family and friends.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Parents don't contact me unless they want something. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I am a sah mum but need to get back into workforce. Don't know how when I just want to sleep all day. I have no motivation. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I just want to be happy again.&lt;/P&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Wed, 20 Mar 2019 04:23:25 GMT</pubDate>
    <dc:creator>lost72</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2019-03-20T04:23:25Z</dc:date>
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      <title>I'm so unhappy</title>
      <link>https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/depression/i-m-so-unhappy/m-p/397851#M35077</link>
      <description>&lt;P&gt;I don't know where to start. Nothing makes a me happy and nobody seems to care.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;My partner is not understanding what is wrong with me. I guess I can't really pinpoint it either. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I am yearning for something better. Financially we are treading water. I want to move but can't make a decision where. But Im not wanting to do that to my kids. Having to change schools etc.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt; Brother invited all family to go to Bali for his 40th knowing I don't fly so that's crap..partner wouldn't go anyway cos he ia negative towards most of my family and friends.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Parents don't contact me unless they want something. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I am a sah mum but need to get back into workforce. Don't know how when I just want to sleep all day. I have no motivation. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I just want to be happy again.&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 20 Mar 2019 04:23:25 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>lost72</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2019-03-20T04:23:25Z</dc:date>
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      <title>I'm so unhappy</title>
      <link>https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/depression/i-m-so-unhappy/m-p/397852#M35078</link>
      <description>&lt;P&gt;Can I ask if you're seeing any professionals? &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;If you find one that you like they can be extremely helpful, even if they can only listen and provide some understanding. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Also when I was feeling extremely unmotivated (and really just wanted nothing more than to lie in the dark all day) working actually helped me push through that depressive state. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Obviously this isn't everyone's experience but I found a reason to make yourself presentable and leave the house for at least a portion of the day really helped. It also provides an opportunity to meet new people who may be able to understand you better - or at least bring you further out of that slump. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;It's all pretty connect from my experience, working means more money, which means less stress, which will help reduce your depression&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Sorry if this didn't really help, it's all kinda basic stuff but sometimes these things are overlooked.           Really all I can say is try and stay as positive as you can to the things you can't change &lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 20 Mar 2019 06:25:03 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Rockmelon</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2019-03-20T06:25:03Z</dc:date>
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