Choosing who you real friends are

vip — Sun, 22 Jun 2014 04:25:57 GMT

Hello people you know what I did I joined facebook for 11months I really really wanted to see what people think of the real me. So many people friended me even ones I didn't know . Wow how exciting mainly I found out they disliked me they knew about what I did and their perception of me was not what I thought it was. Really I am shy, not very loud, funny at times, emotional , passionate, caring , love helping others. Their perception tarty., big mouth, know all, loves herself haha that's ok all my links were fake like top designer brands ect ect some of the sports , all those countries I have travelled too man ive only been to goldcoast ive never been to Europe with what money????? Myself and my husband have basically just worked took quick trips down south pay our bills pay our mortgage we have no expectations on our son . I put there that I see him playing for a top international league team as if ??? haha he can do what he wants im not a parent that puts any pressure on . Now people these people are coming too me with all my quotes all my sayings think they know my business they don't. I hate facebook I really hope this is all closed down one day it is absolutely ridiculous to post up family photos photos of children this is all asking for trouble really. Look I have 2 friends I can really trust and 1 brother who is bloody incredible in my heart that's it really I know hey I wrote I cant drink too. I can people I know how to stop im not an excessive drinker now all eyes were on my when I went out lastnight I drank 1 in front of my spys and then later had another 4 when they left Im one cool cat and one smart cookie . I need this research people for the book I will write titiled MY BATTLE WITH DEPRESSION This disease has taught me to enjoy 1 day at a time and to enjoy the small things like a simple hello from a stranger or just waking up in the morning seeing the sunshine or just seeing my son laugh honestly I live in the real world in not a dreamer im not a celebrity im just a realist who drives her husband absolutely crazy at times haha

Choosing who you real friends are

Neil_1 — Sun, 22 Jun 2014 23:55:22 GMT

Dear vip

I’m really enjoying having you back on our forums and providing your posts. Another very insightful one – indepth, genuine and honest. I think anyone who’s been on this site now for a bit of time knows my opinion of facebook, which I believe is now YOUR opinion too.

I think back to when I first started my work career (1984) – I started in a typing pool – yes, possibly the first male typist on a Commonwealth Govt Department and yes, I could do shorthand as well. My point here is though – computers for everyone, ah no. We had the most basic of all computers in the typing pool. People would write down their work/minutes/letters, etc on A4 paper and send it down to the typing pool to be typed up.

Mobile phones in those days? I think someone said that a person had one – but we didn’t believe them, that person always tended to exaggerate.

My point is: in their own special way, those days were more relaxed and easier to handle to deal with. People would walk along and would look at the sky, at the trees; on buses, sometimes people would talk or they’d simply check out what was going on outside.

Now, check people out – they can’t go very far without having their nose in their phone, etc. The thing that always amuses me, and will do so again in a few days time when we fly out – you get to your destination and as soon as people are off the plane, they’re diving in their pockets for their phone. You know, they might have ‘missed a call’?

I have one of the oldest phones going – I can do 4 things on it: make calls, do texts, use my alarm and play the snake game where it eats squares and gets longer. Although haven’t played that for over two years now.

Cheers

Neil

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