topic Re: Stalker in Anxiety

Stalker

G-i-g-i — Mon, 14 Jul 2025 10:12:30 GMT

I feel no one is supporting me. I have a stalker and it started May 2025. I gave the police a report including his photos but they cannot do anything because I was not physically harm. They don't understand how this affect me mentally and emotionally. It seems they are protecting this guy and not me. The police said, they will talk to my stalker meaning they will know this guy but they couldn't tell me who he was, because I would like to apply an AVO but this police did not apply for an AVO. They are protecting this guy who violated my human rights. I thought, stalking is a crime here but they protecting him not me. They protecting a man who did wrong and not me, the victim. I know what stalking means but these police are protecting this middle-aged man. These policemen are protecting this man who commits crime and they should know that this man has no right to stalk someone or follow someone. The police said, maybe this old man is lonely who just wanted to talk. But it is still not right to follow someone. It happened 7 times in different places, and it is creepy seeing him in any place I go. It is not a coincidence, because he followed me 7 times already. It's a pattern. Same man and same behaviour but all my efforts of recording those incidents were ignored. I am tired already watching my back every time I go out, I am tired already of observing, recording or reporting to the police. I have do much anger in me. I am not interested with any man and never talk to a stranger it's because I am lonely. I don't talk to a stranger especially to a creepy like him. Who do you would like to make friends to this kind of man. Who do you think would like to make friends with a stalker. No one I think, because he is creepy. These police don't really care. All my efforts were ignored and wasted. They said, my stalker did not hurt me. So, they will only act if I am hurt. The police will act if something happened to me. The stalking started May 2025. And I know, he is not the only one. He is still out there and even uses other people to monitor me. I have photos of his stalker's proxies. I am not stupid not to notice those men amd their behaviours but it seems no one believe me. I do not understand these police, why they can't find a solution for this. That's why, we have lots of victims of stalking being unheard including me. I want to fight him until he gets what he deserves but every time I approached people, they don't help maybe because I am an Asian not white. And I am more angry now, and starting to lose hope that this will ever stop and these police are not fair to all people. I thought the police here are very good and helpful but I was wrong. They oath to protect innocent people bu, no, they are protecting the criminals. They choose only who they wanted to help. They will only act if someone hurt or died. Wearing police uniform but they don't respect true justice.

Re: Stalker

TrueSeeker — Tue, 15 Jul 2025 02:29:33 GMT

Hello

I'm so sorry that you're going through all this. I can see that you've tried your best with the police and it does seem all unfair. Maybe trying to talk to your GP may help to get through all this and make it easier to cope with it.

I hope that all this will be sorted out, please take care and let us know how you're going whenever you feel like it

Re: Stalker

G-i-g-i — Wed, 16 Jul 2025 01:25:27 GMT

Some police believed me but in other locations, they did not believe. If only they would watch the footages/cameras in the places where my stalker followed me, and read all my detailed reports, it could reveal the truth. This man violated my human right to privacy. He knows me coz he knew the time I leave the house and could follow me everywhere I go. This is the first someone would do this to me. And he is a middle-aged man. I expect at his age, he knows what is right or wrong and he choose to be creepy and stalk. Thank you for your support. 😔

Re: Stalker

G-i-g-i — Wed, 16 Jul 2025 06:28:04 GMT

Thank you, TrueSeeker for your understanding and support. Take care, too

Not supportive police

G-i-g-i — Sat, 19 Jul 2025 22:17:34 GMT

They don't believe me in what I say to them that my primary stalker is using other people to follow and watch all my movements. They said, i am just being paranoid and advised me to see a doctor for my paranoia. I am perfectly well, in fact I talked to my doctors and psychologist recently and still have appointments with them and my friends and other support workers know about my situationright now.. I told the police about guys, but they said, they don't recognize me talking to you because they said, they cannot see me while talking to you. This is so saddening.

Not supportive police

G-i-g-i — Sat, 19 Jul 2025 22:24:35 GMT

Sorry for my type error, what i was trying to say when I told the police that I am talking to beyond blue, they don't recognize it because they said, beyond blue cannot see while i am talking to them. They think I am jost only paranoid. This stalking started in May 2025, and seeing them following and watching me is not a paranoia. My mind is stable, I am studying right now and my class is nearly finished. I have no past records of mentally problems. I hold the registered nurse title for 32 years now and have no problems with my work. These police people are unfair

Re: Not supportive police

TrueSeeker — Tue, 22 Jul 2025 00:25:23 GMT

Hello

Have you tried to get legal advice? It might help you to sort it out. I can see how frustrating and exhausting it is for you. Trying all different options available to you might help.