https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/big-problem/m-p/571505#M49879 Some times i bite off more than I can chew<BR /> <BR /> I have a disability and it's a challenge, I can't handle it<BR /> <BR /> Please advise me<BR /> <BR /> I bully my self and have no faith in my self. Tue, 01 Aug 2023 12:15:44 GMT AC57 2023-08-01T12:15:44Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/big-problem/m-p/571505#M49879 Some times i bite off more than I can chew<BR /> <BR /> I have a disability and it's a challenge, I can't handle it<BR /> <BR /> Please advise me<BR /> <BR /> I bully my self and have no faith in my self. Tue, 01 Aug 2023 12:15:44 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/big-problem/m-p/571505#M49879 AC57 2023-08-01T12:15:44Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/big-problem/m-p/571511#M49881 <P>Dear AC57~</P><P>Welcome. I'm afraid life is not always fair, and some peole get the short end of the stick, disabilities being an example.</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>I too have physical limitations and can sympathise in the challenges given to you every day. It can be hard to accept at times and I get silly and stubborn and try to do things I know perfectly well are beyond me - then fail and pay the consequences.</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>I realise then I'm unwise and should be more accepting. Maybe I'll improve <span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":confused_face:">😕</span></P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>I do know what can help, and that is to set my sights on things that are within reach, and when I attain them I feel better about myself, after all these are victories.</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>I'm only talking generally because I don't know your circumstances, I would like to be more specific if you'd feel like coming back and saying more.</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>Croix</P> Tue, 01 Aug 2023 12:53:53 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/big-problem/m-p/571511#M49881 Croix 2023-08-01T12:53:53Z