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    <title>topic Re: The power of loving healing relationships in Anxiety</title>
    <link>https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/the-power-of-loving-healing-relationships/m-p/570004#M49717</link>
    <description>&lt;P&gt;Hi,&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;I would say in many cases the "first" relationship you have as a new born is mother and father. Fathers are just as important as mothers in many cases and in some cases the father is more important..&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Re: " &lt;SPAN&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;EM&gt;and &lt;STRONG&gt;we must never&lt;/STRONG&gt; take them for granted"&lt;/EM&gt;.&amp;nbsp; I'm not sure about the wording of this or "....&lt;EM&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;and you never&lt;/STRONG&gt; be rude and disrespectful to them&lt;/EM&gt;" or "&lt;EM&gt;You &lt;STRONG&gt;must&lt;/STRONG&gt; realise how lucky and how precious they are and always show love and kindness to them."&amp;nbsp; or "...&amp;nbsp;&lt;STRONG&gt;You must always&lt;/STRONG&gt; beleive in the good hearts of the people around you and relise they only want to help you" or "...&lt;STRONG&gt;and we must show them love respect and gratitude&lt;/STRONG&gt; for there honourable work they do for us everyday. or "&lt;STRONG&gt;You must find strength and comfort&lt;/STRONG&gt; in the powerful relationships that surround us and respect what they bring to our lives.&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;We members here come from all different lives, ages, gender etc so the diversity is large. I'm 67yo and I cant help but feel you are giving me a sermon. For example, respect and gratitude is earned not a given. I will return respect and gratitude to nurses and doctors when they have proven to me I have nothing to fear and they do their work well. I recently had a pathology nurse abuse me with no reason (staff sent me there in error) and had other staff comfort me during my distressing episode. But you say "I must show them respect and gratitude". Maybe overall people in emergency services could be shown gratitude (as should cleaners, prison warders, and many other professions because collectively we all make up society)&amp;nbsp; but wording the above in the manner that you have is saying (my interpretation) that we should and there is no excuse if you dont. I dont think you should TELL people how to treat others because many have valid reasons to treat them how they see fit.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Sorry, thats the way I read it.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;TonyWK&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Wed, 12 Jul 2023 06:38:11 GMT</pubDate>
    <dc:creator>white knight</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2023-07-12T06:38:11Z</dc:date>
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      <title>The power of loving healing relationships</title>
      <link>https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/the-power-of-loving-healing-relationships/m-p/569924#M49708</link>
      <description>The connections we have with our family our friends or other important relationships in our lives are the things that keep us going and persavering in life.
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&lt;BR /&gt; The first relationship is your mum and the relationship I have with my mum is very prominent in my life because everyday I spend time with her and we cook dinner with dad every night.
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&lt;BR /&gt; The connection you build will not only be with your parents but other prominent relationships like your teacher at school. The story that resonates with me was I was walking behind everyone on the camp but my teacher&amp;nbsp; was walking with me. In another instance I went snorkling with my principle.
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&lt;BR /&gt; My beautiful sister, I have a close bond with my sister and she is my great guidance and compass she always showed me the right path in life. My sister is super intelligent and I am so proud of the beautiful powerful women she has become.
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&lt;BR /&gt; My brother is a larican and we ave a beautiful connection with a laugh of helping him with homework. We would also watch the foot ball and cricket and play cricket for that matter. We have knowlegdable conversations about many topics like science and history.
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&lt;BR /&gt; There are many other connections in life that we all develop through out our lives these connections guide us and protect us all of our lives.
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&lt;BR /&gt; We also have our close friends and confidants that guide us in our key decisions in life the show us the right path in life.
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&lt;BR /&gt; Then you have the myriad of female confidants that give you giudance and protection in a loving and caring guiding force. I have been extremely blessed to have these powerful womwn in my life and surrounding me like angels. I feel we are sent people to guide us protect us for a purpose and I am gratful for the love and guidance of these powerful women in my life.
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&lt;BR /&gt; We are surrounded by angels and people who love us and guide us and we must never take them for granted that they exist in our lives and you never be rude and disrespectful to them.
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&lt;BR /&gt; You must realise how lucky and how precious they are and always show love and kindness to them.
&lt;BR /&gt; In giving we receive
&lt;BR /&gt; You must always beleive in the good hearts of the people around you and relise they only want to help you. There are wonderful doctors and nurses that are there to guide and protect you and get you better and we must show them love respect and gratitude for there honourable work they do for us everyday.
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&lt;BR /&gt; You must find strength and comfort in the powerful relationships that surround us and respect what they bring to our lives.
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      <pubDate>Wed, 12 Jul 2023 08:03:42 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/the-power-of-loving-healing-relationships/m-p/569924#M49708</guid>
      <dc:creator>Elephant86</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2023-07-12T08:03:42Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: The power of loving healing relationships</title>
      <link>https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/the-power-of-loving-healing-relationships/m-p/570004#M49717</link>
      <description>&lt;P&gt;Hi,&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;I would say in many cases the "first" relationship you have as a new born is mother and father. Fathers are just as important as mothers in many cases and in some cases the father is more important..&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Re: " &lt;SPAN&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;EM&gt;and &lt;STRONG&gt;we must never&lt;/STRONG&gt; take them for granted"&lt;/EM&gt;.&amp;nbsp; I'm not sure about the wording of this or "....&lt;EM&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;and you never&lt;/STRONG&gt; be rude and disrespectful to them&lt;/EM&gt;" or "&lt;EM&gt;You &lt;STRONG&gt;must&lt;/STRONG&gt; realise how lucky and how precious they are and always show love and kindness to them."&amp;nbsp; or "...&amp;nbsp;&lt;STRONG&gt;You must always&lt;/STRONG&gt; beleive in the good hearts of the people around you and relise they only want to help you" or "...&lt;STRONG&gt;and we must show them love respect and gratitude&lt;/STRONG&gt; for there honourable work they do for us everyday. or "&lt;STRONG&gt;You must find strength and comfort&lt;/STRONG&gt; in the powerful relationships that surround us and respect what they bring to our lives.&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;We members here come from all different lives, ages, gender etc so the diversity is large. I'm 67yo and I cant help but feel you are giving me a sermon. For example, respect and gratitude is earned not a given. I will return respect and gratitude to nurses and doctors when they have proven to me I have nothing to fear and they do their work well. I recently had a pathology nurse abuse me with no reason (staff sent me there in error) and had other staff comfort me during my distressing episode. But you say "I must show them respect and gratitude". Maybe overall people in emergency services could be shown gratitude (as should cleaners, prison warders, and many other professions because collectively we all make up society)&amp;nbsp; but wording the above in the manner that you have is saying (my interpretation) that we should and there is no excuse if you dont. I dont think you should TELL people how to treat others because many have valid reasons to treat them how they see fit.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Sorry, thats the way I read it.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;TonyWK&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 12 Jul 2023 06:38:11 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/the-power-of-loving-healing-relationships/m-p/570004#M49717</guid>
      <dc:creator>white knight</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2023-07-12T06:38:11Z</dc:date>
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