https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/struggling-with-anxiety/m-p/556025#M48155 <P>Hi everyone, I am struggling to keep up with juggling life. I’m currently at tafe but finding it difficult to get a job. I have major goals and aspirations and will never give up in whatever circumstances. However I have been struggling with my mental health and me being single. I have never been close or loved by a woman. I am able to talk to girls but most of the times I just end up not liking them or something about them I don’t like. I struggle to come to the grips that I may have high expectations and people will always have flaws, but I don’t want to commit to something if I’m not happy.&nbsp;<BR /><BR /></P><P>I am also struggling to juggle starting my online buisness and trying to get a job at the same time. In the back of my mind I am depressed that I did not have a high school girlfriend. I’m always wanting more out of my life and I struggle to cope with my raw ambition.</P> Mon, 02 Jan 2023 16:18:24 GMT LucasFA14 2023-01-02T16:18:24Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/struggling-with-anxiety/m-p/556025#M48155 <P>Hi everyone, I am struggling to keep up with juggling life. I’m currently at tafe but finding it difficult to get a job. I have major goals and aspirations and will never give up in whatever circumstances. However I have been struggling with my mental health and me being single. I have never been close or loved by a woman. I am able to talk to girls but most of the times I just end up not liking them or something about them I don’t like. I struggle to come to the grips that I may have high expectations and people will always have flaws, but I don’t want to commit to something if I’m not happy.&nbsp;<BR /><BR /></P><P>I am also struggling to juggle starting my online buisness and trying to get a job at the same time. In the back of my mind I am depressed that I did not have a high school girlfriend. I’m always wanting more out of my life and I struggle to cope with my raw ambition.</P> Mon, 02 Jan 2023 16:18:24 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/struggling-with-anxiety/m-p/556025#M48155 LucasFA14 2023-01-02T16:18:24Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/struggling-with-anxiety/m-p/556028#M48157 <P>Hi Lucas,</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>Welcome to the forum.</P><P>I'm sorry for your challenge, but I don't see anything wrong with you when you say you don't want to commit to something if you're not happy.&nbsp;It's a calm and rational decision.</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>I would suggest you to focus more on your study, career and ambitious goals, and it will make you more attractive. I also want to encourage you to enjoy your life,&nbsp;live in the way you like, develop your hobbies and approach people with similar interest. Something good will happen sooner or later.</P><P>&nbsp;</P><P>Mark</P> Mon, 02 Jan 2023 19:40:43 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/struggling-with-anxiety/m-p/556028#M48157 Mark Z. 2023-01-02T19:40:43Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/struggling-with-anxiety/m-p/556031#M48160 <P>Hello Lucas, sometimes high school girlfriends do have a different objective once they leave school and may decide to move away to better their circumstances or perhaps they stay with you, which i what you were hoping.</P><P>Starting your online business and trying to get a job may eventually clash, but if you are confident about your own business hen try and reach out to people who may be able to get you going.</P><P>Geoff.</P><P>Life Member.</P> Mon, 02 Jan 2023 21:08:42 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/struggling-with-anxiety/m-p/556031#M48160 geoff 2023-01-02T21:08:42Z