https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/new-here-and-wanting-some-help-advice/m-p/513179#M42885 <P>Hi Nicole,</P> <P>Welcome to the forum. If you are feeling lonely and in need of someone to talk to I would highly recommend the services Being https://being.org.au/ and efriend https://efriend.org.au/. The staff are kind and good at listening. Both services have helped me a lot.</P> Fri, 18 Sep 2020 05:03:58 GMT Suzie29 2020-09-18T05:03:58Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/new-here-and-wanting-some-help-advice/m-p/513177#M42883 Hello. Im 26 and ive been having anxiety/derpession/adandoment issues for a few years now. <BR />Its hurting my relationship. I feel like im always letting my hisband <BR />And children down on a constant basis. Some days ill let the housework go <BR />And the house will be messy. I loose my cool and get aggitated easily. <BR />I dont like being touched. I just need help or even need to talk to someone. Please <BR /> Fri, 18 Sep 2020 01:45:19 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/new-here-and-wanting-some-help-advice/m-p/513177#M42883 NicoleWatts 2020-09-18T01:45:19Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/new-here-and-wanting-some-help-advice/m-p/513178#M42884 <P>Hi Nicole,</P> <P>Wishing you a warm welcome to the bb forums - although I would recommend you change your post name to be less identifying as this is a public forum.</P> <P>You will find many helpful members you can talk freely through your concerns, but just to kick off, I think it is perfectly natural to have the feelings you do. Have you asked how your husband feels or has he said anything to raise your concerns?</P> <P>Having a conversation on these things may ease your fears of not living up to expectations. </P> <P>Regards,</P> <P>t.</P> Fri, 18 Sep 2020 03:46:14 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/new-here-and-wanting-some-help-advice/m-p/513178#M42884 tranzcrybe 2020-09-18T03:46:14Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/new-here-and-wanting-some-help-advice/m-p/513179#M42885 <P>Hi Nicole,</P> <P>Welcome to the forum. If you are feeling lonely and in need of someone to talk to I would highly recommend the services Being https://being.org.au/ and efriend https://efriend.org.au/. The staff are kind and good at listening. Both services have helped me a lot.</P> Fri, 18 Sep 2020 05:03:58 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/new-here-and-wanting-some-help-advice/m-p/513179#M42885 Suzie29 2020-09-18T05:03:58Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/new-here-and-wanting-some-help-advice/m-p/513180#M42886 <P>Hello,</P> <P>Sorry you are feeling this way...</P> <P>I understand anxiety can be very exhausting I had sever anxiety and have now recovered from it...</P> <P>Have you spoken to your gp about how you are feeling? Your gp could do a mental health plan with you this will give you 10 free appointments with a phycologist...<BR /> <BR /> i seeked professional help and I feel without their help I wouldn’t be the same person I am today <span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":smiling_face_with_smiling_eyes:">😊</span></P> <P>here if you want to chat </P> Sat, 19 Sep 2020 07:45:49 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/new-here-and-wanting-some-help-advice/m-p/513180#M42886 Petal22 2020-09-19T07:45:49Z