topic Anxious in Anxiety https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/anxious/m-p/455419#M35419 <P>Someone need to confront the bully, otherwise she will continue to bully other people.</P> <P>Tell her that some women have come forward to you and tell her how she has made them feel and that it’s not ok.</P> <P>You don’t have to continue the conversation further then that, I can totally understand how this would be making you feel anxious I would absolutely feel the same way.</P> Fri, 13 Sep 2019 09:41:13 GMT Amz87 2019-09-13T09:41:13Z Anxious https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/anxious/m-p/455418#M35418 Well, I will be upfront. I have suffered anxiety for a long time. I am a golf captain at our small golf club in our town. Anyhow, we had our Open Day on Wednesday where lots of ladies come to enjoy themselves. Yesterday, I played golf in a neighbouring town and a lady from that club came out to tell me that one of our lady members made a new golfer from another town "feel very inadequate and a little intimidated". Now, the lady in question also intimidated and made me feel very inadequate last year when I was captain. I did approach her about my incident, but I never once received an apology. I am feeling very anxious today about this whole episode that I had to up my anxiety meds this morning. I rang the President of our golf club and he said that it was up to me to sort it out. I don't think that should be my job. Our golf season is coming to a close, but this lady will continue to discourage ladies from playing golf. Besides me moving clubs to play golf, I really do not want to confront this lady. Any suggestions? Fri, 13 Sep 2019 01:36:11 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/anxious/m-p/455418#M35418 agobella 2019-09-13T01:36:11Z Anxious https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/anxious/m-p/455419#M35419 <P>Someone need to confront the bully, otherwise she will continue to bully other people.</P> <P>Tell her that some women have come forward to you and tell her how she has made them feel and that it’s not ok.</P> <P>You don’t have to continue the conversation further then that, I can totally understand how this would be making you feel anxious I would absolutely feel the same way.</P> Fri, 13 Sep 2019 09:41:13 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/anxious/m-p/455419#M35419 Amz87 2019-09-13T09:41:13Z