https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/all-my-friends-leave-me-and-i-dont-why-and-soon-im-gonna-have-no/m-p/423733#M31907 i moved to a new school and for the first semester i had no friends but 2nd semester i made friends and it was all good but the beggining of next year my best friend got another best friend and i was pushed away and it wasnt peaceful, i had no idea why but i just had to accept it and try and become best friends with someone else from the same group. that was a year ago and i was dumb and regret so much but now we've moved on and both live in peace and occasionally talk to each other without drama. I made a new best friend and life was great, we would talk so much and go and just hang out with each other and talk about anything and everything without a problem for the sake of this ill call this person Rebecca. At the same time as i was friends with rebecca i was trying to make friends with the people in my classes and i made good friends with this one person who we will call Damien and damien was pretty quiet but a really cool and funny person and eventually he would sit with me and my friends at lunch instead of his usual group so we would all talk and he would talk to rebecca so it was just a bunch of friends hanging out and it was great. until this year, now damien hangs out with us instead of his old usual group and one day he was talking about a game and rebecca heard and was like oh cool and bought the game and they would discuss it and probably play the game with each other. Im not really interested in games and nor do i want to spend $100 on a game its just not quite my thing. rebecca and i where in the same class this year so would run out of things to talk about a lot which rarely ever used to happen and throughout the year rebecca gradually became more hostile. i would routinely be called a moron and be sweared at for no reason, i never said anything rude or offensive and she knows that and its gotten to the point where i have to be careful what i say so i dont get humiliated, ill make a tiny human mistake and ill be sweared and yelled at by my "best friend" and you remember damien yeah well they are becoming best friends now and im being left behind and yelled at constantly for no reason, i introduced them together only for this to happen to me and on friday we had a special scholsay where the year group was seperated into groups and they where in the same one and at recess and lunch they would be so happy and had all these jokes and they are at the beginning point of friendship where everything is 10x funnier and im left behind and have no one Sat, 08 Dec 2018 23:55:57 GMT skinnylegend 2018-12-08T23:55:57Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/all-my-friends-leave-me-and-i-dont-why-and-soon-im-gonna-have-no/m-p/423733#M31907 i moved to a new school and for the first semester i had no friends but 2nd semester i made friends and it was all good but the beggining of next year my best friend got another best friend and i was pushed away and it wasnt peaceful, i had no idea why but i just had to accept it and try and become best friends with someone else from the same group. that was a year ago and i was dumb and regret so much but now we've moved on and both live in peace and occasionally talk to each other without drama. I made a new best friend and life was great, we would talk so much and go and just hang out with each other and talk about anything and everything without a problem for the sake of this ill call this person Rebecca. At the same time as i was friends with rebecca i was trying to make friends with the people in my classes and i made good friends with this one person who we will call Damien and damien was pretty quiet but a really cool and funny person and eventually he would sit with me and my friends at lunch instead of his usual group so we would all talk and he would talk to rebecca so it was just a bunch of friends hanging out and it was great. until this year, now damien hangs out with us instead of his old usual group and one day he was talking about a game and rebecca heard and was like oh cool and bought the game and they would discuss it and probably play the game with each other. Im not really interested in games and nor do i want to spend $100 on a game its just not quite my thing. rebecca and i where in the same class this year so would run out of things to talk about a lot which rarely ever used to happen and throughout the year rebecca gradually became more hostile. i would routinely be called a moron and be sweared at for no reason, i never said anything rude or offensive and she knows that and its gotten to the point where i have to be careful what i say so i dont get humiliated, ill make a tiny human mistake and ill be sweared and yelled at by my "best friend" and you remember damien yeah well they are becoming best friends now and im being left behind and yelled at constantly for no reason, i introduced them together only for this to happen to me and on friday we had a special scholsay where the year group was seperated into groups and they where in the same one and at recess and lunch they would be so happy and had all these jokes and they are at the beginning point of friendship where everything is 10x funnier and im left behind and have no one Sat, 08 Dec 2018 23:55:57 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/all-my-friends-leave-me-and-i-dont-why-and-soon-im-gonna-have-no/m-p/423733#M31907 skinnylegend 2018-12-08T23:55:57Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/all-my-friends-leave-me-and-i-dont-why-and-soon-im-gonna-have-no/m-p/423734#M31908 <P>Hello, welcome to the forums and thanks for posting your comment.</P> <P>I feel sorry that Damien and Rebecca seem to have become good friends and now ignoring you with unkind words.</P> <P>I've seen this happen many times before, the trouble is it's not what you would have expected and it just happens before you know it.</P> <P>It's certainly disappointing and something you never wanted to happen, but the one thing they don't respect is that<STRONG> true friendship is something that will last a life time</STRONG> and not merely just a few months, after which they break up, again something I've also seen before.</P> <P>If a person doesn't value your friendship they are not worth chasing, but if they decide to be your friend again, then you would have learnt a lot about how much trust you want with them.</P> <P>At school friends come and go and when you finish then these friends you promise to keep in touch with move elsewhere and contact is lost.</P> <P>Geoff.</P> Sun, 09 Dec 2018 17:08:52 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/all-my-friends-leave-me-and-i-dont-why-and-soon-im-gonna-have-no/m-p/423734#M31908 geoff 2018-12-09T17:08:52Z