https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/ruining-my-relationship/m-p/396690#M29550 <P>Hi alwaysstressing,</P> <P>Welcome to the forums and thanks for being here! I really appreciate you joining us.</P> <P>I don't think you're a horrible person - because horrible people don't tend to think about their consequences or join forums for support <span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":winking_face:">😉</span></P> <P>It does sound like there's a lot of anxiety there, but it's hard to know without knowing more about you whether there's something else going on or where this might be coming from. Often with anxiety it's this constant fear, so even if your partner might say the right thing or be honest with you, in your mind it still doesn't settle it so you get mad? Does that add up to you?</P> Mon, 19 Nov 2018 22:07:10 GMT romantic_thi3f 2018-11-19T22:07:10Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/ruining-my-relationship/m-p/396689#M29549 I need help but I don’t know where to start. I don’t know if I’m just a horrible person or if I’m anxious. I question everything my partner does and if he doesn’t give me the type of answer I’m looking for I blow up. I don’t know how to control myself. He could be late home from work and I question it. He is about to leave me. I feel sick at the thought. Please help! Is this anxiety? Mon, 19 Nov 2018 17:12:40 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/ruining-my-relationship/m-p/396689#M29549 alwaysstressing 2018-11-19T17:12:40Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/ruining-my-relationship/m-p/396690#M29550 <P>Hi alwaysstressing,</P> <P>Welcome to the forums and thanks for being here! I really appreciate you joining us.</P> <P>I don't think you're a horrible person - because horrible people don't tend to think about their consequences or join forums for support <span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":winking_face:">😉</span></P> <P>It does sound like there's a lot of anxiety there, but it's hard to know without knowing more about you whether there's something else going on or where this might be coming from. Often with anxiety it's this constant fear, so even if your partner might say the right thing or be honest with you, in your mind it still doesn't settle it so you get mad? Does that add up to you?</P> Mon, 19 Nov 2018 22:07:10 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/ruining-my-relationship/m-p/396690#M29550 romantic_thi3f 2018-11-19T22:07:10Z