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Worried about being judged, being misunderstood and not taken seriously.

Guest_523 — Fri, 28 Jul 2017 08:10:12 GMT

I get medication that I take every now and then for panic attacks/sleep. I work extra hard to do the right thing and only take this if absolutely necessary. I am very responsible as I only get a small prescription every 3 or 4 months. I saw on the news where they are going to make it harder to get this due to some people being uncool with it. Great, now I am worried that I will be judged in the wrong way. However my record does show that over the long haul that I have been responsible but you know me! I have to worry about something so now I am going over in my mind how I will be given the fish eye whenever I get my prescription filled. Jeez I worry a lot.

Worried about being judged, being misunderstood and not taken seriously.

Hope_for_the_best — Sat, 29 Jul 2017 06:39:04 GMT

Well, has anyone actually given you a fish eye when you fill your prescription? If you get a prescription from your doctor, then you have a valid need for the medication and you are a legitimate user. Why would you be judged in the wrong way? A good strategy to cope with worries is to evaluate how valid they are based on evidence. Very often, you don't come up with any solid evidence to support your worries. Then forget about them! Life is already hard enough. By the way, how are you getting along with your psychologist? Haven't seen you updated your other post.

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Guest_523 — Sat, 29 Jul 2017 14:24:36 GMT

Hi Thanks for your response. I am on the very long waiting list for the psychologist, I believe that October is when I am supposed to start my visits. However they got me into seeing him the last 2 weeks so I am keen to take advantage of cancellations. To answer you. I know that there is no logical reason that people would judge me, but the thing is is that I worry that they will. I feel as if I will be lumped in with the scammers even though I am so on the straight and narrow that it is not even funny, I am so worried of being judged that it is hard to deal with. To be honest, I go without just to show that I am honest. I know, I am strange.

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Guest_523 — Sat, 29 Jul 2017 14:27:15 GMT

Hope, thank you so much for taking the time to opine on my situation, You are very kind.

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Croix — Sat, 29 Jul 2017 14:50:14 GMT

Dear Sensitive Viking~

Is your pharmacist an approachable sort of person? Mine knows my regime inside-out, should do with the number of meds I take I believe I've significantly contributed to an island in the Bahamas for her.

The reason I mention this is if you have a friendly relationship you may not feel as exposed. Plus it's useful, I quite often asked how long since I've taken xyz or how many repeats I have left.

Your doctor is also going to have a record of you consumption and will almost certainly tell you if there were any concerns (which I'm quite sure there are not)

Croix

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Guest_523 — Sun, 30 Jul 2017 02:16:14 GMT

Thanks for your reply.

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Guest_523 — Thu, 03 Aug 2017 06:29:06 GMT

I finally feel some peace in that I have a new Psychologist who will be working with my Doctor that I have had for over a year, I call today for a GP appointment only to be informed that today is their last day! The reason being is the long commute. For Pete's sake. I finally find a Doctor that I can trust and that talks to me like I am a human, and they just leave. No Notice to Patients or anything. Sick of these games and trusting people.

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Guest743 — Thu, 03 Aug 2017 07:24:59 GMT

Hi S.V., I don't quite understand. You say you are worried about being judged when you get your prescription filled? Who do you believe is going to judge you, the pharmacist or other people waiting inline?

I guess with me I am very lucky with my regular pharmacists. They understand the reason for getting that particular medication and are always understanding. Even the other times when I have been to different pharmacists they have always been very good.

I do have anxiety about being judged by my work colleagues and I worry whether they would think I am bunging it on or trying to take the soft option etc.

Worried about being judged, being misunderstood and not taken seriously.

Guest_523 — Thu, 03 Aug 2017 07:28:29 GMT

Hi, I mean getting judged on what the prescription is, and it makes no sense but how I feel. Thanks for your reply.

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Guest743 — Thu, 03 Aug 2017 07:45:47 GMT

Ok I get that part, but who do you you worry will judge you?

Worried about being judged, being misunderstood and not taken seriously.

Guest_523 — Thu, 03 Aug 2017 07:50:53 GMT

I am sorry but you are making be uncomfortable.

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Croix — Thu, 03 Aug 2017 11:21:34 GMT

Dear Sensitive Viking~

If our thoughts and feelings were that logical we would Spock, sadly, if mine are anything to judge by they are all over the place (and frequently hurt).

Having you medical team disappear is so frustrating, and as you say builds up distrust for the next bunch, it's a pity we need them.

It does not sound in the least professional not to make arrangements for the ongoing care of existing patients.

Is it going to be hard to find someone else in your area?

Croix

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Guest_523 — Fri, 04 Aug 2017 02:48:25 GMT

Thanks Croix, I appreciate your input. Yes, it will be difficult but I have a GP appointment for Thursday. This Doctor will be able to view my records and such but one just never knows how they will get along with a person. My Doctor that left was Female and I felt like she got where I was coming from . I am very funny about how people talk to me and she was spot on about that however in the end knowing that I have bad anxiety issues, she just leaves. I feel very let down and sad. I can understand if there is a family emergency or sickness but I found out it was just the long commute. So Now I am mega stressed as I "assumed" that a GP who refers you to see Psychologist would work together as a team to help. I assumed that if you have a patient of over a year that being a Doctor one might mention this to another like referral. Heck I do not know, I mean I do not desire to be treated like a King, but a bit of kindness goes a long way. Sorry I am just bitter now I do not know why they could not of at least have reception send sms's to Patients letting them know but I guess it is just how it is. Sorry for the whinge.

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Babyboomer — Sat, 05 Aug 2017 06:29:29 GMT

Hi there. I completely understand where you're coming from. Developing a trusting relationship with a doctor takes time and courage and is definitely not a walk in the park. I go to a GP who has his own very small practice with his wife, and have been for a very long time. Ill be devestated when he decides to retire. Same thing with my psych! When anxiety kicks in, they've both been understanding and supportive.

i also understand your concern of being judged when getting scripts filled. I used to feel the same, but not so much now. I think I was ashamed at having to take medication, but now I'm so grateful it works for me. I also find it easier now to be more open about having an anxiety disorder. I don't announce it to the world, but I'm more comfortable to talk about it now if need be. So far, I haven't come across anyone who has a problem with it.

I hope you soon find a doctor you trust who will work closely with your psychologist. In the meantime, be gentle on yourself. You are much,much more important than what you think others may think of you. When you get you scripts filled, hold your head up high and say thank you with a big friendly smile. We never know what's going on in someone else's life and a warm friendly smile could be just what they need. It's almost as good as a hug!

Take care and let us know how you go Thursday.

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Guest_523 — Sun, 06 Aug 2017 21:39:03 GMT

Thank you

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Guest_523 — Fri, 11 Aug 2017 06:51:05 GMT

Hi Things went really well with the new GP, he was very understanding and listened to me and his vibe was real good. I was prescribed an anti-psychotic along with my other medicine that I use for panic attacks, it is a low dose for the AP, never took those so a bit concerned and hope someone on these forums can give some input on that medication. Kind regards Robert

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Babyboomer — Sun, 13 Aug 2017 03:35:46 GMT

Hi Robert. I'm so glad everything went well for you with your gp visit. Maybe you could check with your pharmacist to ask about the new medication as to how it works and any likely side affects! Alternatively you could chat on line with one of the BB counsellors and ask them. One I chatted with was very encouraging and told me that it can take 2 to 3 weeks for the startup symptoms I was having as a result of an increase of the meds I'm taking to abate. She was right!

It would be good to know how you're doing.

Kind regards

Jacky

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Guest_523 — Sun, 13 Aug 2017 05:33:17 GMT

Thanks Jacky

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Guest_523 — Mon, 14 Aug 2017 06:56:01 GMT

How do I get in touch with the BB counsellors? I really want to find out more about this medication and have not had a chance to ask a Chemist.

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Croix — Mon, 14 Aug 2017 12:30:04 GMT

Dear Sensitive Viking~

I believe you are talking about the beyondblue on-line chat service that is available 3pm to 12am. You go to the link Chat online which is top right hand corner of every page.

Hope this helps

Croix