https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/the-aftermath/m-p/296153#M23072 <P>Good afternoon all, </P> <P>Tell me has anyone come out of an emotionally abusive relationship in this group?? I spent 5 years in one and now that i am out and have been for some time i am in a new relationship of 2 years and i am struggling with asking for my worth and communicating because of a crippling fear of upsetting them and them leaving. I hate the feeling and it spins me out when i think they may be pissed off at me even though minor disagreements are normal and healthy. </P> <P>Tam</P> Fri, 06 Oct 2017 03:37:23 GMT Talafa 2017-10-06T03:37:23Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/the-aftermath/m-p/296153#M23072 <P>Good afternoon all, </P> <P>Tell me has anyone come out of an emotionally abusive relationship in this group?? I spent 5 years in one and now that i am out and have been for some time i am in a new relationship of 2 years and i am struggling with asking for my worth and communicating because of a crippling fear of upsetting them and them leaving. I hate the feeling and it spins me out when i think they may be pissed off at me even though minor disagreements are normal and healthy. </P> <P>Tam</P> Fri, 06 Oct 2017 03:37:23 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/the-aftermath/m-p/296153#M23072 Talafa 2017-10-06T03:37:23Z https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/the-aftermath/m-p/296154#M23073 <P>Hi Tam, welcome </P> <P>Yes 11 years married to a master of emotional abuse.</P> <P>It is very difficult to overcome. You can get therapy.</P> <P>Rather than woffling on hete are some relevant threads that spell it out better. Use google</P> <P>Topic: the best praise you'll ever get- beyondblue </P> <P>Topic: the balance of your life- beyondblue </P> <P>Tony WK </P> Fri, 06 Oct 2017 09:19:30 GMT https://forums.beyondblue.org.au/t5/anxiety/the-aftermath/m-p/296154#M23073 white knight 2017-10-06T09:19:30Z