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D & M (deep & meaningful)

demonblaster — Fri, 11 Aug 2017 12:12:54 GMT

Heyaz 🙂

Love a bit of depth, general chat whatever

So I find fascinating that the universe that we're part of, use to think it's us Earth and out there but saw on TV once a man said we're part of it. Kaboomb yeah we are
When I was about 8 a teacher told us about it being infinite & with time research incredibly powerful telescopes, the hubble, it's still the same & these things can see millions if not billions of lights yrs away & light travels at phenomenal speeds, beyond anything we can comprehend.
Some of the light we see looking at stars from Earth have long since died.

Outta lets say 100 people (there'd be millions + reports) that report a UFO there'd have to be at least one that's accurate.

Sooo I reckon there's more than this, has to be doesn't there, we're only in nappies in the big picture but doin well with learning which I'm positive we're here for esp to become better people. One of the only goods about ageing is we (well a chunk anyway lol) is we mellow, learn more, hopefully become better people.

That'll do for now, even if which I hope some do come to natter, yous don't .... I'll be back 🙂 lol ....Arnolds sister 😉

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Coffeebean — Fri, 11 Aug 2017 12:37:55 GMT

I heard someone say recently, that if aliens visited earth, it would probably be to see an eclipse. That our planet is unique, because when you look up, our moon and sun are the same size in the sky, just perfect for a solar eclipse. It would be a tourist attraction for the aliens!

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demonblaster — Fri, 11 Aug 2017 12:44:21 GMT

Cool Coffee it's good hearing different thoughts beliefs.

Late partner was a passionate fisherman & would go at witching hrs to catch em & his grand father, another bloke who was totally pumped & him all saw something that absolutely wasn't from here, hovered and moved at lightening speed, nothing like anything we've got here.

It just seems to vast and unreal to think we're the only so called lol intelligence or other life in this magnitude.

I think often about all the forms of life here, we're all animals but so many different species, what's that about and apparently new research has shown plants hurt, they bleed and also communicate with scent I think to others of danger approaching.

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Coffeebean — Fri, 11 Aug 2017 12:50:45 GMT

Yes, there has to be something else out there. We are so tiny in the universe.

Somehow it comforts me to imagine how insignificant we are. All our worries in just one speck of rock. 😊

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demonblaster — Fri, 11 Aug 2017 12:58:02 GMT

Reincarnation: I'm thinking maybe our Auras are our souls and our bodies are transport for them.

Always been inclined to see the logic in reincarnation, think we keep going till we do maybe reach perfection or peace. Maybe we are an experiment. Failing one but do believe unfortunately slowly are improving in some areas anyway.

Not religious but have some beliefs, thoughts, no offense to anyone with religious beliefs but I don't think anyone knows for sure. Belief helps us through & hopefully one day we find out what this is all about. Fascinated me from as old as I could think.

Reckon here's too well worked out for survival to be a miracle or starting from organisms though if so maybe still planned.

Food I think we can go without for about a wk, water 2/3 days max but they're & of course Oxygen are all here for us to survive and same for other species that we can't tolerate

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demonblaster — Sat, 12 Aug 2017 23:31:08 GMT

6th sense: Psychic, we all have a sixth sense but some have it come through naturally, why?
I know when I'm tired and I guess the other senses aren't as strong maybe but be thinking about someone & poof they contact me or similar

Gut feeling: Nothing unusual about a bloke standing outside a pub in Oz or anywhere for that matter, in Sydney was walking past a rough one, as I went past had a really strong feeling in my chest, realised later I sensed his bad intents but didn't recognize at the time, kept walking and he came up behind me and yanked hand bag off me and took off.
6th sense kicking in. External warning?

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demonblaster — Sun, 13 Aug 2017 06:32:41 GMT

Soz Coffee didn't see your other reply till now, yeah I've heard people say that which is a good way of looking at it that our problems in the big scheme of things are so minimal, don't feel that way but yeah lol.

Like that one speck of rock. Truth

Love looking at the stars too, puts me in a peaceful place, the beauty, like diamonds sparkling against Black background, & the what's it all about aspect, think our answers are out there.......somewhere.......far ......far ....away

There's recently been more evidence that there once was water on Mars which is interesting. I don't listen to news much but hear bits here and there.
We have to find somewhere else to live cause the Suns about half way through it's life, when it goes Super Nova I think it is life here dies through lack of light, heat etc but that's Millions or Billions of yrs off. I have faith in our intelligence that we'll if need be, be able to produce what the sun gives or have found a way to sustain life elsewhere in universe. Won't be in our life times here though......or.........?

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demonblaster — Tue, 15 Aug 2017 22:55:37 GMT

One of the hardest realisations I've come to is I'm very lonely although have a lot of love everyones busy in their own lives. I guess I need to make more of an effort too in being in contact with friends & family so will.

I do stuff, like helping people and am in various ways so get a lot of satisfaction doing that.

Walk, see people I know, chat to strangers, stimulating, I'm an extrovert so that helped yesterday after about a 10 min chat to a stranger, saw someone I know, chatted for a bit, lasted for a while, gave a boost, had a sleep,
wasn't long and the downs came back.

Learning to like myself slowly but still not good in my own head.

Did this thread in the hope there may be people that wanna chat but apart from Coffee bean no takers 😞

Does anyone know of a good safe site where people chat?

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Coffeebean — Wed, 16 Aug 2017 12:38:10 GMT

Hi again. I think I'm more of an introvert, but I like to go to my regular cafe, where they know how I like my coffee, and I can chat to the owner. It makes me feel a bit more normal. And it's a good 20 min walk, so a good reason to get some exercise.

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demonblaster — Wed, 16 Aug 2017 23:32:19 GMT

Hi CB 🙂

Yeah had good day yesterday, saw Doc great bloke & Doc getting more stuff in place, had really good social time with good friend saw another and others that I know too gives a lift.

Happy to have here to be able to support and vent when need to too.

Yeah walkings a good out there and the excercise is great too.

Are you ok in your own company being an introvert, something I'm learning by starting to like myself, had deep reciprocated love from late partner of 28yrs and knowing people like/love me helps no end in liking and self esteem.

The beast is soo damned good at burying the goods but we've got em, just have to realise aye

Thanks for reply 🙂

have good day

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Coffeebean — Thu, 17 Aug 2017 00:05:51 GMT

It's really early days for me with counselling, so I'm still only just starting to figure some things out about myself. I'm often not happy in my own company- too much opportunity to think! So I put on my headphones to try to drown out my thoughts. But I guess I'll have to face them sooner or later.

It's good that you have a good doctor. I'm going to have to see mine again soon. I think he's ok, but only started seeing him a few months ago. I have seen four other doctors in the past few years, and haven't really been happy with any of them. Perhaps I'm a difficult patient!

Anyway, about 6th sense and gut feeling - I'm pretty good at knowing if someone is pregnant!

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demonblaster — Sat, 19 Aug 2017 00:39:20 GMT

Hey Coffee like your name btw was thinking bout that yesterday, it's neat

Yeah too much time alone can be dangerous for a depressed mind aye, though I think we need to think it through to come to resolve but it's when it continually pulls us down aye.

Yeah this Doc he's a lovely bloke we've always gotten on very well, so happy to have him, he ticks all the boxes.

Hope the newish Doc and counselling works out good for you

Aha so can tell when peeps are preggers, cooool 😄
50% chance of guessing boy/girl, I bomb out usually lol

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Coffeebean — Sat, 19 Aug 2017 08:06:50 GMT

Hey DB

thank you 😊

I am a bit of a coffee freak, but I had to make the decision to cut back my intake a couple of months ago. For sleep and anxiety. Two a day is my limit now. I think I was going through withdrawals when I chose the name!

youve been lucky to find a good doctor. Maybe I haven't given them a chance. If they say something I disagree with, or annoying, then I look for a new one. I'm going to give this one a chance. And I'm going to give the counselling a good go too (took me 4 sessions to make that decision 😆)

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demonblaster — Wed, 23 Aug 2017 01:43:25 GMT

Good onya Coffee, giving the counsellor a go too and the Doc.

Yeah I'm ok either way with coffee, like it but you woulda thought I was selling the stuff at a club one time, there was a machine and it was the most YUM coffee, was raving to everyone, anyone that'd listen lol.
Got the name eventually but may not be able to say it here. Gotta Z in the last part of name.
Yeah it has the pump, good you've backed off
I don't have it every day but if I do try to stop at 3 cause of BP bipolar, don't need the extra pump when pumping

Gotta stuffin cold, not feeling too bad though, mainly nose and cough, wonder I didn't get it before when was extremely tired, was catching up on sleep, been doing that a LOT lately, kills time and giving up durries so good to as well
Going ok with that, buying the odd one of people if they'll take the $

Hope you're well 🙂

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demonblaster — Sat, 23 Sep 2017 22:36:21 GMT

Heyaz :)

Forgive me I get pretty passionate on stuff that people get hurt and hassled with when their usually not hurting others.

SSM (same sex marriage)

YESSSSSS!!!! ........How I see it is who or what gender someone is intimate with is their choice or/and as recently pointed out down to biology.

This is about sexual preferences. It's about love, being attracted to someone... full stop.
There's not a bloody rule well yeah for many evidentally it's an invisible one that says only be with opposite gender. What the......WHY? what harm to anyone else. What we should be worrying about is the people that hurt others lives.I think I better not say specifics in case of triggers but we all know the bad stuff that goes on.

I've thought this too and recently bumped into a vid from Pink (famous singer) who said it's nobodies business. Yip

My philosophy is don't hassle & give a hard time to people that aren't hurting you, how hard's that. Life's hard enough & mainly due to people/illness/ natural disasters/ and the list goes on and on, we've got enough without petty so what stuff.

It's moreso Homophobes that hurt, beat up, abuse, & often is the case Gays are fighting back, not to say there wouldn't be Gays hurting people but more common for other way.

Narrow minded people (so like the dark ages) annoy me, there's a bloody big world out there, and we're just babies in this universe, still in nappies. We've got soooo much to learn and I'm pretty sure that's why we're here, we have to for survival and that includes learning how to be better people and live in peace with eachother surely.

7.6 Billion people, and everyone's different. So there's gunna be things different people like.
Do gays say to Heterosexuals you shouldn't be with opposite sex, doubt it much.

Again I say "Let people be" unless they're hurting someone.

My philosophy is don't hassle or hurt people if they're not hurting you.
Life's amazing if we're getting on and liked/loved, everyone's most basic need

Thx listening, open to convo on any subjects