topic My 21st in BB Social Zone

My 21st

startingnew — Wed, 18 Oct 2017 23:36:36 GMT

Hi everyone
so mums just come home yesterday and she said what do you want to do on saturday? i said im not sure but will have a think about it.
she said do i want to have a big get together with all the family and i can invite friends (got none of those) but i really dont see my family that much and when i do they only want to see my pop.

ive arranged a hotel for a night on the sunday afterwards but mum wants to celebrate on my actual 21st which is this saturday

im torn as i know shes trying to help but i really dont want a major thing despite it suppose to be a big deal

any ideas?

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RandR — Thu, 19 Oct 2017 00:13:33 GMT

Hi Startingnew,

Just out of any curiosity is there any reason you can't do both?

Any particular reason you don't want anything too major?

Perhaps if you don't want a major thing just tell her that an that you appreciate her making the effort for you 🙂

Good luck!

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startingnew — Thu, 19 Oct 2017 03:28:05 GMT

I dont have any friends to celebrate with. If i did i mightve done both but i dont.

I spoke to her just now and she said shes organised something but shes not telling me so.... i guess ill have to wait and see what saturday brings

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CMF — Thu, 19 Oct 2017 04:44:09 GMT

Hi SN,

I totally understand not wanting to do anything for your bday when you haven't been feeling so great. It is thoughtful of your mum wanting to organise something so I hope, whatever it is, it's nice and not too much for you.

Best wishes

cmf x

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startingnew — Thu, 19 Oct 2017 06:35:05 GMT

hi CMF

im trying to just run with it. she doesnt take into acount into anything just does what she wants to do. i havet got a clue whats in store, considering i dont have any friends i doubt itll be anything too big.

i apprecitate that she wants so celebrate though, im really just not up for it atm.

its on this saturday so will jsut have to wait and see i guess...

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Cesca1557 — Thu, 19 Oct 2017 09:27:18 GMT

hey sn,

thats lovely that your mum does want to do something nice for you, even if its not exactly what you want at the moment.

but your 21st is an big celebration, so even if you do have a nice dinner with the family, its nice to do something 🙂 and if it is just a dinner and drinks, then hopefully its not too big and it doenst take up too much of your energy especially when youre not really up to it at the moment

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startingnew — Thu, 19 Oct 2017 22:31:58 GMT

I found out the plans. She told me that we are just going out for lunch with my uncle who lives a fair few hrs away as well as us.

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CMF — Fri, 20 Oct 2017 02:01:16 GMT

Hi SN,

Do you feel ok with that? It sounds it will be more low key than you expected which i think is your preference?

Did you book the night at the hotel for yourself?

cmf

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startingnew — Fri, 20 Oct 2017 02:19:04 GMT

Im ok with that CMF. Its something easy going so thats ok. Not really up for big events

Yeah i booked 2 nights in a hotel so sunday and monday ill be at a hotel

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startingnew — Fri, 20 Oct 2017 07:43:07 GMT

its not going to be small 😞

im 'overhearing' mum so far its 20! it was suppose to be a quiet day.

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Peppermintbach — Fri, 20 Oct 2017 18:34:24 GMT

Happy 21st Birthday Butterfly Wings!!!

❤️🦋❤️🦋

Hopefully you get some time to yourself as I know you’re not exactly looking forward to all the guests/visitors.

Big, big hug and well wishes from me.

Love,

Pepper xoxoxoxoxoxo

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Plain_Jaine — Fri, 20 Oct 2017 18:53:14 GMT

Hi birthday girl, I'm new - Jaine. (It's pronounced Jane, but Janie's fine too)

I saw this topic and thought I'd drop in and introduce myself. I'm an oldie but a goodie. So many returns of the day Starting New. Nice name.

If I were to give you a gift, it would be a luxury weekend away at a resort spa in Byron Bay. Very exclusive where you might see a famous person or two or three. They're all drunks, but don't say it came from me ok?

I used to go there when my job got too much. So I do know you'll love it! In fact, why don't we all go? My treat! Peppermintback, you can come too. We'll sip champagne while lazing in the heated indoor pool and spa, then have our nails done.

Happy Birthday!

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Peppermintbach — Fri, 20 Oct 2017 19:08:53 GMT

Hi Jane,

What’s this about a luxury resort?

lol. Champagne, manicures, pools and spa...okay, that’s it, I’m coming!

Butterfly Wings- thinking of you on your 21st and sending comfort to help you get through the day.

Pepper xoxoxoxoxoxo

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Peppermintbach — Fri, 20 Oct 2017 19:10:18 GMT

Apologies Jaine...my bad for misspelling your name. Sorry about that.

Autocorrect struggles.

Pepper xoxo

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Just Sara — Fri, 20 Oct 2017 19:51:46 GMT

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SN!!!

Happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you, happy birthday dear SN, happy birthday to you...and many moreeeeeee. ;-D

21 today, 21 today, she's going for fish and chips, salt all over her finger tips. 21 today, 21 today!

Oh lovely sweet pea...beautiful Nanna hugs and kisses with cherries on top!

Neil Diamond couldn't have sung it better; "Girl...bom bom bom...you'll be a wom-an soon. Great song, look it up. It was in that movie 'Pulp Fiction'.

Love and many happy returns of the day beautiful, wonderful, amazeballs you!

I love you butter wings...:-)

Nan Sez xoxoxoxox

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quirkywords — Fri, 20 Oct 2017 20:17:59 GMT

Starting New

Happy 21, I hope it is a great day, a great weekend and a great year.

I thought you were older (in a good way) as your posts are so wise and compassionate .

Enjoy being spoilt by your mum.

Quirky

Welcome Jaine , I like the idea of a luxury resort.

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CMF — Fri, 20 Oct 2017 20:25:42 GMT

Hey SN,

Happy 21st Birthday beautiful girl.

cmf x

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startingnew — Fri, 20 Oct 2017 22:48:29 GMT

Oh my goodness!!

I umm dont know what to say!

I dont think a thank you is enough!

It doesnt matter how bad i thought today was going to be you guys really just made up for it. Im going to be ok today despite what my brain says. I only get 21 once so today is going to be a good day!

Im about to leave for the day but will be back on later for a proper msg!

Welcome Jaine! Also you must be a mind reader as tomorrow i a actually booked a hotel with a spa bath and luxury room!

Quriky thanks a few people have said that 🙂

Ok im being ushered out the door ill be baaaaacck!

❤❤❤❤

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startingnew — Fri, 20 Oct 2017 22:56:48 GMT

Also just to keep the party here rolling

Ie stuck up baloons and streamers and fairy lights.

We have a quiet corner with lots of fluffy pillows for those who find it overwhelming.

We have a dj with a dance floor for those party animals.

And anything else you want! Its on me!

As well as all the junk food you can imagine with of course healthy options. We have a butterfly fruit arrangement too!

Wish i could upload pics! Youll have to use your imagination

Ok ok im going now hehe

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velvetfaerie — Fri, 20 Oct 2017 22:59:04 GMT

HHHAAAAAPPPYYYY BIIIRTHHDAYYY

WOOOOOOO

🙂🙂🙂✨✨⭐️⭐️🌈🌈🌈🌈🎉🎉🎉

21 Hey? Ahhhhh so long ago for me lol!!!!!!!

Heh... to paint a small canvass... mine was at my house with around 40 of this cities musos..

fun times 😂😂😂😂

be good. Have fun. Ahhh just have fun 😉😉😉😉