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Elderly, lonely, invisible?

jeddal — Thu, 27 Apr 2023 06:09:24 GMT

I am an elderly woman, living alone in my own home on a rural property. My formerly busy life is now limited by severe osteoarthritis and the discomfort of two old and worn-out hip replacements. Constant pain contributes to chronic depression and increases my anxiety levels. My much loved companion is a loyal German shepherd who is always by my side, so I am not, in fact, completely alone.

I have been reading previous correspondence from Grandy and Moonstruck and felt that they would really understand my own situation because theirs sounded so similar. Unfortunately they have not made contact in the forum since 2020 so I guess I have missed out on getting to know them and sharing thoughts.

I love the idea that they discussed back then of creating a special friendship group for the elderly, lonely, not-so-well people. While our problems might be too specific for others to fully relate to or become interested in, we could offer genuine support and understanding to each other.

Is there anyone in poor health and in circumstances similar to mine who have active minds but are physically unable to join social groups? I would love to hear from you.

Re: Elderly, lonely, invisible?

quirkywords — Thu, 27 Apr 2023 09:40:12 GMT

Jeddai

moonstruck and ggrand are still posting.

you will find moonstruck on the. Thread

I can't find the right place for me to post

ggrand has this thread

Alone..Depressed..Sad..

jeddai

many can relate to you.

i can and find ggrand and moonstruck post helpful.

Re: Elderly, lonely, invisible?

Samii1 — Thu, 27 Apr 2023 18:41:16 GMT

Hi Jeddal…I’m so sorry with what you are going through. I live in isolated outback NSW and also suffer from a chronic illness…rare bone disease. It is hard when your mind is active but your body lets you down. I also have a fur baby who never leaves my side…I would be lost without her! So I can relate to what you are going through…please feel free to contact me anytime 💕