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FFL — Sat, 09 Jun 2018 10:39:19 GMT

my life is not as i fort it will be, i still don't no who i am yet i have truoble in school each day i think i want have a good day so i fort i join this site to get up on my feet again

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FFL — Sat, 09 Jun 2018 10:57:00 GMT

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Summer Rose — Sat, 09 Jun 2018 11:52:53 GMT

Hi FFL

It sounds like you are having a tough time right now. I'm really sorry.

I don't know enough about why you are struggling to offer much advice. I really just wanted to respond with care so that you know that you are not alone.

If you'd like to share more information, I and others on the forum can try to support you.

Kind thoughts to you

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startingnew — Sat, 09 Jun 2018 11:57:38 GMT

Hi FFL

Sorry to hear your struggling

Do you have friends, family or a teacher you could speak to to get some help as well?

Would you be able to tell us a little more so we can give some more advice?

We are here for you, well done on reaching out for supports

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FFL — Sun, 10 Jun 2018 01:30:53 GMT

thank you for your support for me , i live on a fram and go to a school wich cmae be bad some times people like to pick on me and if i were my hair down they say mean stuff to me at home my mum is hardly home and whe she is home she get mad at me for no reasons i try to talk to my friend but she doesn't really no how to help me

and this is hard for me because i'm olny 15 and i'm try to work out who i am

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FFL — Sun, 10 Jun 2018 01:39:06 GMT

i do have on friend but she does really no how to help my mum is hardly home and at school people pick on me and if i were my hair down they say mean thing to me an di live on a fram and i am only 15

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Summer Rose — Sun, 10 Jun 2018 10:02:40 GMT

Hi FFL

I'm sorry to hear that your mum is so busy and short with you when she is home. Could it be that she is tired after work? I know that sometimes I am short with my children after a long day at work, even though I don't want to be.

Sometimes my kids just make a comment like "Wow, what's wrong with you tonight?" and it signals to me that I'm being short and then I change my behaviour or explain what's happening for me. Sometimes my daughter will just say, "I miss you mum, you've been so busy lately. Do you want to get coffee?", which is another great prompt to remind me that I need to give her more time and attention. I wonder if you could give mum a gentle prompt or talk to her about how you are feeling? Is there anyone else at home that you could talk to?

I'm sorry to hear that the kids at school are mean to you. I think it would be a good idea to let a teacher or the school counsellor know what's happening so they can help you. Do you think you could talk to someone you trust at your school?

I am really glad to hear about your friend. I'm hoping that you have lots of fun together … what kind of things do you like to do?

Well it seems like I'm asking a lot of questions. You don't have to answer them but I am happy to keep talking if you want to x

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startingnew — Sun, 10 Jun 2018 10:11:06 GMT

Hi FFL

Ive just realised you have another thread that is very similar to this one but with more information so ill be heading over to that thread.

Summer Rose- FFLs other thread is called I hvae no idea 🙂

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FFL — Sun, 10 Jun 2018 11:03:00 GMT

thanks for the advice me and my friend we like to play the piano together and we talk about people that have prombles like me so we can try to help them i no that might sound a bit wird but i can help others but i can't really help my self if i tell a teacher a my school they do'nt really do any thing

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FFL — Sun, 10 Jun 2018 11:04:11 GMT

i think that one has more info to

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Summer Rose — Sun, 10 Jun 2018 13:04:20 GMT

Hi FFL

I'm going to pop over to your other thread and we can talk there.

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FFL — Mon, 11 Jun 2018 04:33:47 GMT